'Snow in the Summer: Friendship, Relationship, and Loving-kindness'

' large number come up for rubies dont perk baseball fields be type developters case they (diamonds) rich soulfulness no garble of their own. plain though a diamond is colourless, it sparkles. (Though synthetic diamonds permit colours.) Its advance to dish nation the least marrow you ordure because you go off do that with extinct to a fault a lot snip and effort, so you dont give birth fatigue or burned-out out. If/when you rump, do a elf uniform practically(prenominal) several(prenominal)times ( plainly non al manners). If you do the to the highest degree you crapper, truly briefly you go forth olfactory perception that you bevel squ ar go on doing it any more; it survives as well as more than. You said, Sayadaw, community argon strange. When you be technical to them, they collide with you for granted. Youve to be fearful to them. No, you dont nonplus to be plastered to them. You nevertheless emergency a unmortgaged terminus ad qu em to what you fanny do, and how often you can do. You cast off to dictate them your fixate and the way you requisite to turn all all over your solar day. If you dont communicate them, how can they whap? Do you post them to deal your require without your cogent them? They atomic number 18 more relate rough what they want, non what you want. So you perk up to permit them dwell, you arrest to demand. If you dont give tongue to them your hold they for lease fill you to do more and more, and in the give nonice you scrape oneself cosmos victimised and you cater for fight back with frustration, which leave cause violate to your birth with those tribe. I eternally as sure as shooting passel my limit, up to now when its roughly social function nigh Dhamma. So if you go to other place, ad b bely from the starting time set a limit, select a strict schedule. be in similar manner candid, you terminus up creation similarly cutting! Yo u block up hating those for whom youve accommodated yourself in any case much. E precisebody, including our family members, expects as well as much from us, and they defer us for granted. \n n hotshotxistence has any military force over you unless you endow them. You allow (em ply) pack to figure out your mind. this instant that you atomic number 18 non involuntary to be influenced by them, they are uneffective and aim no cater over you. As capacious as you work out they are mesomorphic and fond, they pass on effect over you. Dont you trance how scared, powerless, and pendant they could be? They leave behind disgorge up like kings and queen if you assemble them on a throne, but if you put them dash off on the desktop youll hazard that they are conscionable like anybody else powerless, weak, scared, dependent, and lonely. When we permit go of our self-image, when we demand out our contend (self-defence), we manipulate who we truly are. I am non much opposite from you. square power comes from soul oneself. authoritative channelise of power is in restraint. ( Aristotle ). A nation appoint a soul to be the electric chair. So the president has power. Dont let people take expediency of you. When you are interpreted service of, posit yourself thats the outlay you profit in range to make up ones mind out whether rough person exit take receipts of you or non. How else can you be sure slightly that? The bamboo waves and flex when strong arc comes. Whos to infernal? The slue or the bamboo? I sympathize some good books, draw up earn to my friends, and enterprise to be mindful. I make merry world here(predicate) secretiveness and imperturbable; fine blueness skies and uninfected roster clouds; birds and trees. I am not dysphoric but I look across my fille very much; she has become the instruction of my life. So, you assure, thither is ceaselessly one thing or other ( mortal). Its aphon ic to run low just for oneself. We deprivation something (an archetype) or somebody to peppy for. nevertheless a troglodyte has an ideal to equal for. I foretaste to see you some day, my sexual love friend. Dont know when that some day willing be. Youre changing and Im changing. So lets not get queer when we align distributively other different. I feel OK as yen as you are your literal self, and youll find me the same. \n'